Thoughts about food, weight, eating or your body can take up an enormous amount of room. Counting, checking, planning your day around meals, the shame that arrives after eating, the relief that never quite lasts. It is tiring, and it is usually private. Many people carry it for years before they say anything out loud to anyone.
You do not need a diagnosis to ask for help. Online therapy may support people experiencing anorexia nervosa, bulimia nervosa, binge eating disorder, and what is often called other specified feeding or eating disorder, which covers difficulties that are serious but do not fit neatly into one category. It may also help if your eating has become distressing and you have no label for it at all.
It tends to suit some situations particularly well:
- You live somewhere rural, or in a town with no eating disorder service nearby
- Travel is hard because of work, health, or caring for someone at home
- You are continuing recovery after day-patient or inpatient treatment and want ongoing support
- You find it easier to talk about food and your body from your own room than in a waiting room
Whether online work is right for you depends on more than preference. Your psychological needs, your physical health, your age, what home is like, and your current level of risk all come into it. That should be assessed properly by a qualified professional before regular therapy starts, not guessed at. Bodywhys, the national eating disorder association in Ireland, is a useful starting point if you want to read more first.