Maybe you have told yourself that this weekend will be different, and the weekend keeps arriving. Maybe you are the one counting someone else’s drinks, or checking a bank balance you already know the answer to. Something has stopped feeling like a habit and started feeling like a problem.
You do not need a word for it yet. Plenty of people arrive able to say only that things have got away from them, or that they are worried about someone close to them and cannot keep pretending otherwise.
Sessions here happen by secure video, so you can talk from wherever you feel private: a spare room, a parked car, a friend’s kitchen. People all over Ireland use the service, including towns and rural areas where the nearest counsellor is an hour’s drive and a long wait away. Nobody sees you sitting in a waiting room.